Episode 14: Plastic Surgery Meltdown & a $15,000 Horse?!

Emily’s 5 weeks post-op and spiraling — was the face surgery a mistake, or is it just swelling? This week we get into Emily’s emotional recovery and Easter meltdown, the Great Accutane Debate over ONE zit, renovation budget wars between designer-sister Emily and “cheap as possible” Zach, and Amy shopping for a $15,000 horse. 🐴

One of our most unhinged episodes yet.

In this episode:

• Emily’s post-op update & eye infection
• “Did I ruin my face?” Easter meltdown
• Teen skin, allergies & the Accutane debate
• Star pimple patches: cute or gross?
• Renovation budget wars
• Amy’s $15,000 horse hunt

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Welcome to episode 14. And we are coming into this one with some feisty energy already.

SPEAKER_02 0:07

From Amy, I'm fine. You guys are like snooking at me.

SPEAKER_00 0:11

From me too. You are so brutal to try and get you like pre set up, prepared to do this.

SPEAKER_02 0:18

It's just like pulling teeth to get you to do anything. It's like babysitting. I was trying, then I saw myself on the camera. I'm looking chopped. You're not. I think you look good. You're like, I can still tell you're swollen, but it's a million times better than last time you were on. I mean, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 0:39

I mean, last time you were on, you were looking pretty crazy.

SPEAKER_02 0:43

I looked like a cat?

SPEAKER_00 0:44

Yes.

SPEAKER_02 0:45

Do I s do I still look like a honestly?

SPEAKER_00 0:49

Let's retire that sound from you forever. I did not love that.

SPEAKER_02 0:53

Look at that glow.

SPEAKER_00 0:55

So, what's the update though? So, how's it been going? How are you feeling?

SPEAKER_02 0:58

Okay, so I'm five weeks out from yesterday. Yesterday I was five weeks out. And I have an infection in my eye right here.

SPEAKER_01 1:07

You can see. You see that bump?

SPEAKER_00 1:10

So not really, but okay.

SPEAKER_02 1:12

Like, how did you like were you like, this hurts? I'm gonna call the doctor, or so I thought it was a sty. I'm like, that's weird. I have a sty on my like on my incision.

SPEAKER_00 1:24

Does it hurt to touch?

SPEAKER_02 1:25

Yes. Really bad. Like this eye doesn't hurt at all. This eye hurts so bad to touch. So I called him last, well, I texted him and then he called me, and he was like, okay, I think. So he's like, basically, we put dissolvable stitches, and he said, sometimes your body will reject it because it's like a foreign body and it didn't dissolve.

SPEAKER_00 1:45

How long does it take to dissolve though?

SPEAKER_02 1:47

Like three weeks. So I'm five weeks, it hasn't dissolved. So this one stitch, my body is rejecting. So he said the stitch is actually gonna come out.

SPEAKER_00 2:00

So you're just gonna start to see it coming out from like around your eye. Are you gonna pull it out?

SPEAKER_02 2:05

Or do you have to just let it all come out on its own? I'll let it come out and then I'll pull the little tiny stitch out. So it's basically it's kind of like an ingrown hair. Disgusting. But like on your eyeball. Yeah. Like on my eye. So he called me in an antibiotic. So I'm back on cephalexin. And then he's like, if it hasn't come out in like three days, I'll go in. He'll do something. I don't know. But yeah. That's like making my eyes like hurt and water. Yeah. That's why this eye is looking a little weird.

SPEAKER_00 2:34

So how do we know it's where it's gonna come out? What if it comes out more angled at your eye?

SPEAKER_02 2:38

No, I can like I can like feel it. Like there's like a big bump, like right there.

SPEAKER_00 2:42

It's gross.

SPEAKER_02 2:43

It's like a big I don't like that. I put makeup on, but like it's like a big bump. It's like an it's like an ingrown hair. That's what it looks like.

SPEAKER_00 2:52

You have a pube coming out of your eyebrow. I'm gonna say eyebrow, your eyelid.

SPEAKER_02 2:58

Ew, but I I do feel like I'm coming back to myself. On Easter, we were at my mom's house for dinner. She had a full-blown meltdown. I had a full-blown meltdown. I was I literally sobbed the whole day, cried during dinner. In the massage chair. She was sitting in Michael's massage chair getting massage, and she was like, I ruined my face. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 3:19

This is what I'm super grateful for, those 2,000 miles separating me from you.

SPEAKER_02 3:23

Okay, you know what? I was like, I've ruined my face. But since then, like every single day I wake up, it's like I actually think I have like a cheekbone now.

SPEAKER_00 3:33

So we're getting there. Big question. Scale one to 10. At this point in time, how happy are you with this?

SPEAKER_01 3:40

I'm I'm a six and a half.

SPEAKER_00 3:43

Whoa, still pretty low.

unknown 3:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 3:46

I mean, it's better than because didn't we ask her this two weeks ago and she was like, I don't know, like, what did I do?

unknown 3:52

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 3:52

What are the what are the big issues still though? Like, what do you see that you're doing?

SPEAKER_01 3:55

No, it's just no, it's just a swelling? It's just the swelling.

SPEAKER_00 3:58

Oh, okay. Well then I was actually more like the placement of everything and how everything's coming out.

SPEAKER_02 4:03

No, I love the placement. It's the swelling, it's this infection thing I've got going on. Any facial surgery is so emotional, I've decided, because your face holds on to the most swelling. It's like your face, I don't know. Like it's I just think it's a really emotional thing, and I was not prepared for that. Like at all. No, but like actually, you do look really good, and your skin looks amazing. The CO2, 10 out of 10. Go get it. Okay, so did you tell the story about how you had the crash out and the dermatologist and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. A little bit. Didn't you guys like talk about that?

unknown 4:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 4:40

A little bit.

SPEAKER_02 4:40

A little bit. But give us an update. Is she still crashing out? No, because it's exactly what I said. It was it was an allergic reaction. It happens every spring. Her face is perfectly clear. So I think we're gonna wait to do the Accutane until she has another crash out. Well, I never was like, she needs to get on Accutane right now. But I was trying to put myself in her position. And sometimes, like, and I I even still do this with Shannon. Like, Shannon will tell me something that's wrong with me, like medically. Like she'll be like, oh, you probably have this, or oh, you have this. And I'm like, no, you don't know what you're talking about. And then I go see the doctor. She's always right. And she's right. And sometimes you just need to hear it from somebody else. So that's what I was trying to do with just being like, just take her into the dermatologist and have him tell her that it's eczema. And she needs to take a Benadryl and put some cortisone cream on it and then send her on her merry way. I mean, she has in her mind that she like has to do um Accutane because like all of her friends do it. But I I kind of want her to wait. I think she should wait till after the summer. She literally had one zit. One. One. Well, and what 15-year-old does not have a zit? They all do. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 6:00

It's true.

SPEAKER_02 6:01

She goes, but they can pull off their zits. That's literally what she said to me.

SPEAKER_00 6:06

Wait.

SPEAKER_02 6:07

I don't think anyone can pull off a ziting.

SPEAKER_00 6:09

Do kids there wear the zip patches with like the stars? Have you seen those?

SPEAKER_02 6:15

No. Yes. Yes. No, not in public.

SPEAKER_00 6:17

A lot of people I've seen wearing in public.

SPEAKER_02 6:20

I know I hate it. I don't think potatoes.

SPEAKER_00 6:24

I feel like that calls more attention to the zit than just freaking having a zit.

SPEAKER_02 6:28

No, like she wears a zip patch like to bed.

SPEAKER_00 6:31

I see people all the time, especially teenagers with just patches over their face, stars, smiley faces.

SPEAKER_02 6:37

I see it too. I think it's so bad, and you should no one should ever do that.

SPEAKER_00 6:41

But at the same time, I do get it though, because as a teenager, you think everyone's just staring at your zit when you're talking or like around people.

SPEAKER_02 6:48

Well, now we're staring at your star. We don't want to see your star.

SPEAKER_00 6:52

Would you rather see a star or a whitehead?

SPEAKER_02 6:54

Neither.

SPEAKER_00 6:55

Anyway, next thing that well, my bone to pick with you, Emily, is you trying to run up the budget on this renovation.

SPEAKER_02 7:04

First off, I have not been given a budget.

unknown 7:07

Oh.

SPEAKER_00 7:07

Yeah, we've given you the budget. Cheap as possible is the budget.

SPEAKER_02 7:11

Okay, but you guys in your little brains don't understand how much things cost.

SPEAKER_00 7:16

No, in your little brain, you don't understand there are other brands other than the brand names.

SPEAKER_02 7:21

No, I know. I know. Yeah. My Waterstone faucet is$4,000. I picked Megan an$800 faucet.

SPEAKER_00 7:30

That's a nice flex you just put on your$8,000 faucet. But that has been.

SPEAKER_02 7:35

I'm telling you that I gave Megan a less expensive option and you still crashed out.

SPEAKER_00 7:39

No, that was not true because you did not give the less expensive option until I stepped in. Megan told me you guys had$2,000 faucets picked out. And then I was like, what are we doing? Like we can't afford$2,000 faucets.

SPEAKER_02 7:54

Here's the thing. Do you want it to last or do you want it to break?

SPEAKER_00 7:58

We want it to break. This house is not a last house.

SPEAKER_02 8:02

This is not their forever home, Emily. Okay, so how how long do you think you'll be there? Five years?

SPEAKER_00 8:07

No, the plan is this. We'll be there five years, or potentially a little bit longer. Obviously, crossing our fingers, things progress well for us financially in my job and stuff. This house is so old, and it's on such a nice lot that if we were to want to do something else to it, we'd knock it down and just build a separate house or move to somewhere else because lots of people want to take buy our lot to knock it down anyway. So we don't want to build put something that's gonna be super nice, super expensive if people, if we're not gonna be there forever, and if the next person's gonna want to knock it down anyway. So, yes, the home renovations have caused some some friction with Emily and I. Um, so I'm having to keep everyone on on track here and keep a budget.

SPEAKER_02 8:54

But this is the thing that I've learned. This is what I've learned in my 20-something years of living. Everybody gets in fights with either their designer, their builder, or their subs when they're when they're building or renovating a home. That's just how it goes. No matter if your budget is$37 million or$7,000. Or how about this, Zach? How about this? What am I charging you guys at all for any of the design work that I have done?

SPEAKER_00 9:23

No, I I said it last podcast. I said I'm extremely grateful for the help. I said it's very very grateful for that. But I I was just trying to say I have to be the bad guy and I have to brain everybody.

SPEAKER_02 9:43

The husbands always ruin all the fun. I mean, yeah, if you if you have a budget, you have a budget. Yeah. Slay.

SPEAKER_00 9:52

So anyway, Amy. Speaking of budgets, how's that horse budget looking? What's the new update there?

SPEAKER_02 9:59

I actually went this morning and looked at a perspective horse. Like you, you guys are looking at like prospective houses and like stuff like that. Perspective like design things for your new house that you just bought. I'm looking at a prospective horse.

SPEAKER_00 10:17

So, you know, did you feel bonded to this one?

SPEAKER_02 10:21

He was really, really sweet. Like he was like cuddling me. And do you buy a baby when you buy a horse? Or like what age of horse do you buy? With horses, you can't you can't even put a saddle on a horse until they're three. This horse is five. So he's still like a baby. So in my perfect dream world, I would have like a 15-year-old horse. That's so old. No, because get like an eight-year-old. Well, okay, can I this is my dream. So shove it. This is Barbie's dream. This is Cowgirl Barbie's dream. So you can shove it with your little plastic face. I want a 15-year-old horse who knows the barrels, like the back of their hand that is a little more push style. I would rather have to push a horse than hold it back. And I want a horse that can teach me. I I can't get a horse that like I have to train. She's disinterested. She's looking at her phone and say, Did I not tell you that that would happen? No, you were so mean to me about my plastic face because I said get a baby horse you could grow up with. Well, because I was talking about my dream. You get a baby horse that you can grow up with. I'm trying to have realistic dreams of because I have a goal that I want to meet this summer. I can't get a baby horse if I want to meet that goal. Okay, go continue. I apologize for my comment about your face. I actually really do think your face looks really good. Really rude. Okay, I'm sorry. That your face looks amazing. You don't look possible. And you know I'm sensitive. I know. I'm sorry. That was super mean of me. I'm sure. Anyway, no, I actually really am. That was really rude of me. Um, anyway, so he was a nice horse. Not gonna buy him, especially for how much they want for him. It's just like And how much do they want? What's a hor what is a horse rent these days? Depends. This one this morning was 15,000.

SPEAKER_00 12:16

Yikers.

SPEAKER_02 12:17

They just started barely like learning, trying to teach him the barrel pattern. So it's like if I'm gonna spend$15,000 on a horse, it needs to be a horse that knows its job and loves it.

SPEAKER_00 12:29

Is this horse gonna be attached to the the family or how does that go?

SPEAKER_02 12:34

That's just kind of like the horse world. Like you buy and sell. That's just kind of how it goes.

SPEAKER_00 12:40

Yeah, so if you say in five years, you're like, all right, time to get rid of this guy. You can just it's that's not that big of a deal.

SPEAKER_02 12:48

I never would do that, but if I if I needed to sell the horse, wait, I have a bought the horse.

SPEAKER_00 12:56

You have a husband. He's like, all right, we can't do this whole horsey thing anymore.

SPEAKER_02 13:02

Well, then he's a dick.

SPEAKER_00 13:04

Okay, but I know, understand. Like, hear me out. Maybe he wants to move somewhere else. He has to go, he has a new job, and you guys are gonna be living in a city or something. And he's like, uh, this is gonna be kind of tough. What are you gonna do? Like, what's the thought process there? I'm just throwing it out there, just a hypothetical.

SPEAKER_02 13:20

I would keep the horse at the barn. They have a lesson program. Like, I'm in the lesson program, I ride the lesson horses because I don't have a horse of my own. And they have like so many cute little kids that just like love these horses so much that come every day. They take care of them, they feed it treats. Like, it's not like it's just like sitting. I I don't want my horse to sit in a stall 24-7. Like, that's depressing.

SPEAKER_00 13:44

So, when's the next one you're gonna be looking at?

SPEAKER_02 13:46

Next week, up in Hebrew, and it's a it's like a seasoned barrel horse who has like gone to rodeos before.

SPEAKER_00 13:52

So you're excited about this one. Yeah. Okay. All right.

SPEAKER_02 13:57

How do you find a horse to buy? Like, how did you find these horses? So, my trainer, it just like she's she's either bought horses from these people before, or just like other barns that she knows that are selling these horses.

SPEAKER_00 14:12

Okay, so more it's gonna be more about Amy, but there was something going around on TikTok, I guess. So someone shared their DMs with a guy, and she's about to go on a date with him. And he asked her out, set a time for like 7 p.m. But then they the guy refused to pick her up and said, Um, just meet me there. And so everyone was giving their opinions on like if that's normal, if people should, you know, we can do that in 2026. But uh he got defensive because she said that's low effort and canceled the date on the guy. And so I wanted to hear because Amy, I think you've had this happen a couple times where you've been on dates and the guy's been like, uh, just like meet me there.

SPEAKER_02 14:58

Yeah, it's only ever happened once that I've had a guy be like, meet me here. Um, and I kind of know him, and I kind of know that he is like known for being late. So I texted him and I was like, because he sent me like a Google map and was like, okay, like meet me here at seven. And I was like, okay, just so you know, if you're not there at 6 59, I'm leaving. I will like if I pull in and at 7 and you're not there, I'm I'm not staying.

SPEAKER_00 15:31

Like you you legit said that?

SPEAKER_02 15:34

Yes, because I I remember that I know he is he's always late, he's notorious. Which as she should like put some effort in. This is ridiculous. So then I was like, so if you're not there at 659, I will not be there either. And I'll just turn around and leave. And then he was like, haha, okay, what if I'm there at 659 and I come pick you up? And I was like, amazing, even better, perfect. See you at 659. I mean, what is with the low effort these days? I I can understand like a safety thing, but so so this is the other thing because I I do see both sides because like in Utah, it is an expectation. If you don't at least come to the door and then would walk me back to the car and open up my car door, it's like that guy, if he doesn't do that, he's not getting a second date. But like in like people, like in places outside of Utah, that's not normal. And normally for first dates, they meet at the restaurant or the bar or the coffee shop because they don't know these which I get. I get that. I do a safety thing. I I do see both sides, so I I kind of have a hard time.

SPEAKER_00 16:50

If you've met the guy face to face, for sure he can come pick you up. If not, I think you probably want to meet him there regardless.

SPEAKER_02 16:57

If it's a blind date or like you've never met the guy, or you met on hinge, or you met on whatever, then I would I would prefer to meet, but like guys that put in zero effort, it's just that's just like ew.

SPEAKER_00 17:09

Ew.

SPEAKER_01 17:10

Ew.

SPEAKER_00 17:11

Yeah, I don't think I don't know. I'm trying to think back in my dating, dating days. Not sure if I ever said I'll meet you there too often.

SPEAKER_02 17:19

Taylor always picked me up. Always. Well, that yeah, that that's what I'm saying. That's like a thing in Utah. And he always came to the door and he always walked me to my car. Like, I just can't.

SPEAKER_00 17:31

Yes, I agree. Lots of low effort, but I wanted to continue on to Amy's dating. So, Emily, you don't know this, but yesterday we filmed an episode that unfortunately we're not gonna use, but we can hopefully use a part of it. We had my one of my best friends come on, and uh I had them do a five-minute pretend date. Like they just sat down at the table and I wanted to see how Amy would do with like a cold conversation.

SPEAKER_02 17:57

Was it like over Zoom and you just like sat and watched them? And you were just like, Yeah, Zach was like, Okay, I'm gonna pretend to be the waiter. He's like, Okay, here's your seat, here's your water and diet coke, and then he's like, Okay, I walked away, go. But he's like still like sitting here staring at us. And me and T were like, wait, how did it go?

SPEAKER_00 18:16

The whole idea was I wanted to see how Amy interacted in like a cold first conversation. Obviously, it's not very realistic because it's with T and they flirt all the time together. So we had a date, and uh so Amy did a good job asking questions, getting the conversation going, but the big feedback was the face.

SPEAKER_02 18:35

They wanted me to sit there like this. Oh, is she like this? No, I was like I was like this.

SPEAKER_00 18:43

And no what T said? She looked like a serial killer staring into a soul like that.

SPEAKER_02 18:48

He said I looked like the purge mask, which is so rude. But I think this looks like a serial killer. Like, like if I'm eating. But like, do you have expression on your face when you're talking, or are you just like, yeah?

SPEAKER_00 19:01

This is what she did. She just sat still. So she needs to add a little like emotion to the to the face. Like, oh, that's so funny.

SPEAKER_02 19:08

I get that. I like act like a little interested, like use some like gestures. No, but like I I was interested. Like, I like I was asking him questions that I do want, like, I wanted to know the answer to.

SPEAKER_00 19:20

You just gotta not act like you have a neck brace on and just kind of stiff.

SPEAKER_02 19:25

You're very stiff when you're dating. I've seen it. You don't know how I am when I'm dating Emily.

SPEAKER_00 19:31

So, anyway, we got some great feedback. Great things for Amy to work on.

SPEAKER_02 19:35

Okay, next subject.

SPEAKER_00 19:37

Judge and jury, we had some ride-ins that we can talk about.

SPEAKER_02 19:41

I actually had some ride-ins too, if we want to talk about those. You start with one because I have to find it.

SPEAKER_00 19:47

My mom and sisters are planning a baby shower for one of my sisters, and the expectations seem to be that the rest of us will help cover the cost, okay? Everyone else is paying for it. However, a date and location were chosen consulting everyone, and the shower is set to take place out of state where my sister lives, meaning the rest of us would need to travel in order to host it. The first group message about the shower focused on how much everyone was willing to contribute financially, even though details like the venue and guest count hadn't been discussed yet. When I realized the selected date wouldn't work for one of our sisters, I expressed concern that the event wouldn't truly feel like a family gathering if not everyone could attend. That concern didn't seem to be shared by the others. It was also mentioned that only pastries and sweets would be served. I voiced that if guests are expected to travel over an hour, it might come across as inconsiderate, not to provide a more substantial meal, especially if we're all contributing financially. In response, I was told I was being negative and making the situation about myself rather than focusing on celebrating my sister and brother-in-law. I'm trying to understand. Am I wrong for asking these questions and raising these concerns?

SPEAKER_02 20:48

No. I'm just wrong at all. If you're contributing financially, you should be able to raise concerns.

SPEAKER_00 20:54

I agree. Well I usually don't agree with you, but yes.

SPEAKER_02 20:58

And I think it's a little strange that they expect everybody to cover the shower, but then they're like, this is the date, and if you can't come tough, but you still have to pay for it.

SPEAKER_00 21:11

Yeah, I think that's weird.

SPEAKER_02 21:13

It's it's a little strange. So it's like either everybody needs to agree on the date or the mom just needs to the mom and whoever can make it just need to pay for it themselves. Also, nothing chaps to take a word from Amy. More than when I go to an event and there's not food.

SPEAKER_00 21:36

Especially if you drive a long time to get there.

SPEAKER_02 21:38

Yeah, like no, like I want food at an event. Always. I don't just want like a cupcake. I want I don't want a cupcake and water. I want like a gorgeous salad with like a gorgeous, gorgeous salad and like Diet Coke, like a pasta salad and a Diet Coke, and I agree. I'm not traveling anywhere if there's Not gonna be food. I don't want to go. I don't want a cupcake and a water.

SPEAKER_00 22:03

You are a so this is for her poor sister.

SPEAKER_02 22:07

I want a sourdough station with strawberry butter. I want a gorgeous salad with chicken on top. I want a pasta salad.

SPEAKER_00 22:16

I am gonna hop on the other side for one thing.

SPEAKER_02 22:19

Ugh.

SPEAKER_00 22:19

Oh my gosh, you guys are the worst. If, for example, you all were hosting, or even probably more for my family, but we're hosting a baby shower and we couldn't be there. I would think it's still normal for Megan or for us to contribute to help with the baby shower, even though she's not there. You know what I mean? Like because she's saying the people that the sister's not that's not going shouldn't have to pay to help with the baby shower.

SPEAKER_02 22:46

I I don't agree with you. Yeah, I don't agree either. Why?

SPEAKER_00 22:49

This is not this isn't about the thing, it's to support the baby shower for my sister that's having a baby, not I I get supporting.

SPEAKER_02 22:56

Get her a gift. I don't think if if the date was picked and she can't go on that date and it was picked without her knowledge, she should not have to pay for the baby shower. She can't even go to, and they didn't even ask her. Agreed.

SPEAKER_00 23:11

No, I think I think contributing to help that is normal.

SPEAKER_02 23:14

If they threw out like four dates and she was being difficult and is like, I can't make it to any, and they're like, Okay, well, you're being difficult and we have to do it on one of these dates, then I could maybe understand like having her contribute a little bit more. But the fact that the date was just picked without anybody being like, Does this work for you? But then also like send us money, I just think that's a little weird. That's not so so kind. What do you know what's weird? All the different family dynamics in life.

SPEAKER_00 23:49

Well, yeah, that's why we have this podcast.

SPEAKER_02 23:51

Interesting. Like Emily just had a light bulb moment.

SPEAKER_00 23:54

Like, literally, that's the whole point of the podcast.

SPEAKER_02 23:56

It's just like nobody could handle our family dynamic. Like, I know nobody could. Like, we are like weirdly like intertwined, always together. Like, and I think that's why some people are fascinated by our family dynamic because it is kind of like abnormal. It's very difficult. It's abnormal to us. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 24:13

What's our final verdict on this situation?

SPEAKER_02 24:16

Um, our final verdict is this girl is not guilty. She's valid for validate you, queen. Yeah. And can you like can you give us like an update? I want to know how it ends. I do want the update. Yeah, I want the update too. Okay. So I did a couple weeks ago. I did a question box. Um, and I was just like, say whatever you want. Like, we'll talk about on the podcast. So this girl wrote in, she's my age. Well, she's 27. She goes, I got my fallopian tubes removed. Parents don't know. I'm 27, no kids. Should I tell them? Why? What a random one. And this this is what I think. If you had to do it for medical reasons, like you had to get your fallopian tubes removed, or else like you would die. Yes, tell them. I don't see, and if they're weird about that, then that's weird. But if you just got them taken out because like you didn't want to have kids, or like you didn't want to deal with like your period, or like you got a hysterectomy, whatever. I could see how you wouldn't want to tell them because especially if they want you to have kids or like they were expecting you to have kids, that might be a little jarring for them. That's that's tricky. That's jarring. So I need a little bit more information from this. I need more information. Yeah. I want to know, like, was your doctor like, I strongly recommend we do this? Or was it just like, was it an elective thing? Like, oh, I'm gonna go do this. That's a big life decision.

SPEAKER_00 25:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 25:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 25:49

Okay. Next one.

SPEAKER_02 25:50

Somebody said, Have you ever had to pay a hundred and forty-two dollar bill on a first date? I did last Friday. FML didn't even reach for wallet, which I'm guessing means he didn't reach for his wallet, which never go out with that person. I would genuinely never speak to that person again. Are you? And I would be like, if if you asked me to dinner, actually, this kind of not that this happened to me, but something I got set up on a date. We went to dinner, like, whatever, it was fine. He paid because he asked me to dinner. And then the person he set that set us up, he told that person, is she a princess? Like, she didn't even offer to pay for the bill. Oh, I would say, well, what are you a dick? Are you a dick? Yeah. First of all, it's not like a business meeting, or it's not like two friends catching up. You asked me to dinner, but I'm like, if you don't want to pay for a big dinner date, go get ice cream. It doesn't have to be like this extravagant Michelin star dinner. Back to this girl. And I never talked to that guy again, and he never talked to me again because he thought I was a princess, and I'm like, you're a douchebag. I would pay if he didn't even reach for his wallet and it's the checks like sitting there for a while. I would be like, Are you gonna I would never go out with that guy again? That's a loser, Emily.

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Uh, thanks for joining us again on the podcast since it's been a while. Episode 14. All right. Well, thanks for tuning in to episode 14 of Legally Friends. Go follow us on Instagram at Legally Friends Podcast and DM us your judge and jury cases. Follow us on Apple or Spotify and also leave us a review, please. And uh yeah, thanks for listening. See you next week. Bye.